Friday, March 22, 2013

An Unexpected Grief

(Sometimes we write to connect with others. Other times we write to connect with ourselves, our pain. This is one of those circumstances. This piece of writing is oblique and I know it.  Even so, I can’t bring myself to be otherwise. Yet.)

Will you weep with me? Share my woe? Then perhaps it will be halved, divided. Might you accompany me to the places sadness leads, examine the items it dredges up? 
            I grieved the unknown then found I preferred it to the truth. Now randomly, frequently, the surprise of loss claws at me, flings punches in the vicinity of my kidneys. I wasn’t ready. It was too soon, much.
            The trail of my tears is charcoal gray with bits of plum and glimmers of silver shine, or is it Fool’s Gold?
             The feeling of responsibility whether warranted or not is insistent. If only . . . What if . . . I shouldn’t have . . . It’s not even my burden but I take it on gladly, not wanting it to break another beneath its crush.  And then there is the silence, the secret, that must be maintained. We cannot open wounds in others with this knowledge. Secrecy is a frigid lightless cave insisting you are alone even if you're not.
            Should I thank this sorrow for the way it’s making my hand bleed upon the page? In this moment, I wish I’d write never more. Will I be despised? For my incompleteness, my lack of clarity, my refusal to truth tell? Translate my reticence as mystery, an opportunity. Fill in the blanks with your heart. What is your secret grief, your regret? What is the reason you hum, “Turn your eyes upon Jesus” and soon after, “And the things of this world will grow strangely dim”? Or perhaps your song is, "Comfortably Numb."
            I want to gather the people who know, the very few—the two, no, three, who are aware. I’ll arrange us in a row with me in the middle then I’ll unfold a handkerchief and smooth it out atop my thighs, outline a fuchsia lipstick heart in the center. Soon after, I’ll drop my tears inside of it. 


writingdianet said...

I hope these words evoke something from you, not necessarily in your head but maybe your heart. I feel that way when I read certain poems. I have no idea what the words mean and yet I get them, on a cellular, or soulular, level. Does that ever happen to you

Oh, and one more thing . . . this piece is from awhile back so please, don't fret about me/mine;)

Optimistic Existentialist said...

This certainly resonated with me...on several levels.

Granny Sue said...

Yes, I think many of us have been in this place, Diane. Your words express it beautifully and heart-rendingly true.

writingdianet said...

Thanks, Granny! I was concerned about my lack of specificity but apparently soul can speak to soul. Cool.


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